Is it Me or is it you?

Its not about the title he gives you, it’s about the role you play in the relationiship. Don’t be so quick to think your TITLE has significance! Sometimes the “side-chick” gets treated better then the girlfriend; Sometimes the mistress gets treated better then the wife, sometimes the AFFAIR holds more value than the RELATIONSHIP……
Im not speaking in the case of a “jumpoff” or a one night stand. I’m speaking of the kind of relationship that goes deeper then sex. Two people who have connected over time. I just may start off as lust but it can grow into love and before you know it your in a triangle of some sort. You know you should but cant walk away. you know its wrong, but it feels so right, and you tell yourself everytime is going to be the “last time”. So I wanna open up some dialogue between us ; the women with the titlte and the one her man is cheating with. Because in order to beat the competition, you must first understand them.
Hopefully this sheds light on why the i stick around. Or even more, make you wonder why the women in the relationship stays??? The woman in the relationship will have you believe that she has the upper hand by proclaiming that she is LOVED. This may be true, but she is also lied to, manipulated, and mislead. However as the “mistress” I always know wassup! I always know where he is what he’s doing who he’s with. He doesn’t have to lie to me. He spends all his free time creeping away from you, only to get closer to me. Holidays, special occasions, celebrations , all spent with me! Im his MAIN concern your on the SIDE lines! So the question is who’s the mistress…..is it me or is it you?